In one of the vignettes in Ada Calhoun’s latest book “Crush,” a woman tells the story of her near-death experience on an airplane. Instead of an A-roll of synthesised memories playing in her mind, she ...

While putting together Bustle’s weeklong inquiry into the pleasure and pain of crushes, we noticed a few things. First, some of you are low-key freaks. Second, talking about crushes can bring people ...